Join the revolution...I was a laggard in the Facebook craze. Joining as friends prompted "when you are on medical leave you will be bored...join it will be fun". I did. But the pain killers made it too hard to see the screen, so time went on and as I recovered I dabbled about once a month. I have become more of a "regular", slowly learning the features and the importance of privacy. What not to put on FB and how others use it.
This is what I have observed:
FOR SOME, FB has become a relationship tool...voyeurism at its best. Who is she friends with? Why did he become friends with her? She went on FB at 12:08am she said she was asleep? He said he did not have a FB account but his laptop has a log from another name? Remember when you had to snoop the old fashioned way, credit card receipts and phone logs..moving right along...
FOR SOME, FB is a parenting tool:
Bobby has a new girlfriend.
Suzie hates me.
Allen got an F in history.
Mary lost her cell phone.
Here is a concept, talk to you kids. If they trust you they may tell you what's up and you won't have to read it on line...But I just may be naive. We'll see.
FOR SOME, FB is a way of breaking off a friendship or not facilitating one.
Kevin de-friended me last week because I did not invite his sister Jen to the party. I can't believe he took it so seriously.
Jen just wrote on my page that my parties suck.
I de-friended Jen, She is such an A$$.
Are we talking 3rd grade or what??
FOR SOME, FB is an escape into another world where life was more simple.
I am growing fake potatoes on my fake farm with my friend fake farmer Jim. Jim never gets mad at me as long as I share my lettuce.
I have cooked extra quiches in my cafe and I will give them to you...will you be my friend..
Escape is nice...have you tried the bubble bath? No really, Fun, Fantasy it's all good... This tells me these people are comfortable enough to chill out and relax with some fun and meaningless activities..so go ahead and share no one is obligated to click on the links...
FOR SOME, FB is a way to connect...similar to MySpace etc...but for now it is more popular so it is easier to find your friends from 7th grade etc...
These people connect, share and relive old moments in high school or college...remember to de-friend your kids first!
Thanks for getting me on to FB...I will jump in and out, stalk, supervise, be silly and caddy, escape, connect and de-friend you the day you say something I don't like.
...one click...your gone. Love Ter
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...for some FB and Myspace is a channel for people to get their angries out after a bad 14 year marriage... but it's Farmville's fault...
ReplyDeletehmmm, what inspired this posting?
ReplyDeleteEvery venue is an extension of the individual navigating it. It's like the dog owner that yanks his attention starved pet from anyone wanting to pet the animal because people don't want to have anything to do with the owner himself,"so don't touch my dog" "arhhhh".
Or a guy (Armand)that can't deal with the fact that he can't still be friends with the girl he had an affair with for a year as he drudges back to his marriage deleting his FB account because he won't delete the ex... so "no friendy- friendy" for anyone.
No different are the interactions of the socially- deficient souls on the internet then they would be in real life... but who needs real life when there's..."Virtual Corn" to be grown...:-)